why, when people die, do we automatically assume they went to heaven?
well I sparked a debate. an unitended debate. apparently one of my "friends" had posted about someone she knew dying and automatically assumed I had seen her post.
I had not.
and when going to check what she said I found she had unfriended me...
and when I went to write her a message....
I found out she had completely blocked any inbound emails from me....
it was NOT a personal attack on whatever her status said, I hadnt even read her status... I had simply updated mine from the application on my phone... which hadn't shown me the update on her status... which I have officially never seen.
what bothers me is that ONE single comment can end a friendship.
are we so shallow that we end friendships based on status updates. I find that utterly incredible.
now I understand my status update had to be pretty close in succession to hers on facebook to have her take it so very personal - but what kind of friend doesnt even ask you to work it out???
and if this friend is "outa here" over a facebook post I wonder how many other faux friends I have out of the 200+ friends.... most all of which I have know in real life.... so I have decided to cool it for a week and take a break from facebook cuz it so isn't worth this kind of stress.
and as much as I love that facebook keeps me connected with friends, I despise that it divides people just as quickly.